Couples months ago, I met a friend who is a psychologist. We told many things about mental and psychology. One of the interesting topics that we told was effects of divorce for children. Do you know what those effects are? If you don’t, check the answer below:
The first is feeling less confidence. Undoubtedly, living apart with either mother or father makes children lack of care, especially if they live together with either working mum or dad that likes spending most time outside home. This condition usually makes children lack of confidence both at their school and in their social life. How to increase self-confidence? Parents have to remain paying attention to and looking after their children as well as possible.
The second is getting stressed and depressed. When your son or daughter know that you and spouse want to divorce, they definitely feel unhappy and depressed, especially if their classmates know it. If your children feel depress, they are usually lazy to go to school, follow lessons and become passive at class. Besides, the worst part is they probably get sick sooner or later.
Last is making children want to smoke. Based on some reliable researches children who live with single parent tend to smoke compared to other ones. This problem happens because they stress out and are unable to accept the fact so they decide to smoke to get comfort. Parents must prohibit their kids to do this bad habit because it makes kids deal with many disadvantages sooner or later.
If you are a wife, make sure that you know what to do to make your husband enjoy living at home so the risks of divorcing can be minimized.